Evelyn's blessing day

Life is an interesting thing.  Growing up in a big family I just kind of thought that is what people did, grow up and have families.  But that is not the case for many people these days.  Some out of choice and for others it's just not what happened for them.  I am blessed to be able to have children and to get the chance to see them learn and grow.  I can't imagine my life without any of my kids.  I believe that in the next life I won't get to take any of my things with me but I can take my family.  I want to be with them forever and I'm excited to watch these 4 girls grow up and hopefully make me a Grandma.  

Evelyn had the opportunity to be blessed by her Dad while we were in AZ.  She is a special little girl and our older girls love and adore her.  It's so fun to see them with her and watch them enjoy her.  There is just something special about having a baby in the house.  Not that it doesn't come with it's challenges, it does, but overall I feel like it's a blessing.  This little girl is such a sweet and tender spirit.  She loves to soak in everything that is going on around her and many people have said that her eyes are always just wide open trying to figure out all that is around her.  This little Evelyn will do amazing things with her life.  She has already taught me so much and I'm so grateful to my Heavenly Father for letting me be her Mom.

 After we blessed Evelyn we went swimming with Zach's family that came down for the blessing.  It was a lot of fun and we don't get to be around them very often cause they all live in Utah and Oregon.

Posting more...Starnes Family

Couple things on my mind.  First off I really want to post more often.  I really want to try and make my blog an opportunity for people to see more of my pictures.  I feel I need to get it out there that I love photography and I really hope that in the near future I can learn enough to start a business and feel confident in doing so.  I have so much to learn but yet I feel very confident that I can give clients pictures they can love more a lifetime.  So to start off I will be posted some older photos over the next few weeks.  Please feel free to tell me how you like these photos.  Any positive criticism I can get will only help me grow.  I really want to produce photos that are real, flattering and beautiful.

This family is the cut

iest!  I love taking pictures for them.  She is so cute pregnant!  Look how stunning she is!

 

life with 4 kids

First off let me just say that I feel so blessed and privileged to be a Mom to 4 beautiful girls!  Really I'm so lucky!  But I will also say that so so so so many people have made comments to me that I feel indifferent about.  I try to smile and nod and move on but in reality it hits a cord with me that I just don't like.  You see I want and have always wanted a big family.  I love being a part of a big family and I feel like Heavenly Father wants me to raise children in the gospel of Jesus Christ and I feel privileged to do so.  But every single time people find out I have 4 children they always seem so sympathetic like they can't even imagine how hard that would be.  Then they find out that I have 4 girls and they ALWAYS say your poor Husband.  First off 4 kids is HARD!  As of now I pretty much get ZERO time to myself.  I'm either nursing a child or helping another one.  Right now I have a lucky few minutes where all my kids are sleeping and I'm writing this.  I probably should be sleeping but I feel I need to write this message. 

So here is the question why, why do Zach and I keep popping them out as one lady said to me this week.  Well honestly I love my family and I feel family is the most important thing on this Earth.  You see when we die we don't get to take any of our things with us but because Zach and I have been sealed in the temple we get to be with our children and family forever.  We get to make memories together and help each other make it through this crazy world.  I've lived away from family for 5 years!  I wish I could move back and get to experience life with my sisters and there kids but right now I don't get to do that.  So Zach and I make as many memories together as we can.  I want to be busy going to ball games, concerts, school functions, and helping to raise awesome kids who will one day hopefully make me a Grandma and then I can love on all there kids.  You see if I just look at life from the now moment I would say no way am I having any more kids.  But who knows what the future holds.  It has been hard having 4, there are days that end in tears, like tonight.  My Husband is gone and I've been cleaning all day and my house still looks messy and my sister is coming.  But you know what all my kids love me. Kali told me tonight Mom I hope I can be better tomorrow, I love you.  She put her pinky out and we locked little pinkies and I think it was her sign to say I'll try harder tomorrow Mom.  She has been such a hard child so I'm grateful for those special moments.  Then Anna comes into my room where I'm trying to nurse the baby to sleep and she give me a note that says I'm the best Mom in the world but she needs help cause Kali and Elsie weren't letting her go to sleep.  I stood up walked into their room while nursing the baby to tell them I love them one last time and then to let them know they needed to go to sleep cause if not they would be tired tomorrow.  Then my sweet Elsie says Mom I love you so much and gives me kisses and hugs and she keeps trying to come up with things to tell me so I would stay in her room, then I think these moments will go by fast.  They will grow up and I will wish they were little again.  After I got Evelyn asleep tonight I just wanted to hold her and not let go, she is already getting so big and I know that this baby stage goes by fast.

I can't even count the number of times I've heard wow 4 kids, you got your hands full, your poor Husband, and you must just keep trying for a boy.  When people say you've got your hands full now I just simply say better than empty.  One day I got out of the car with my 3 youngest and this man next to me says you got a whole load of kids coming out of there hu.  I'm like and I got one at school.   He says wow you've done your civic duty.  Then he asked if my other one was a girl which I said it was and he says oh I see what it was your Husband just wanted a boy so you kept trying.  I just smiled and walked away but seriously conversations like this happen to me all the time.   Sometimes I just don't know what to say but really why do so many people care about how many kids I have?  Why don't you offer to help instead of criticize?  Why don't you tell that Mom she is doing an amazing thing even if it's hard.  Yes this year alone we could have probably bought a brand new car with how many medical bills we are going to have but it is all worth it.  I will keep driving my mini van that someone scratched F*** You on the hood and rock my bun cause being a Mom to these 4 girls is worth all the hard ache, pain and frustration that happens every single day. Yes I could be spending my time doing things that the world sees as much more "fun" but in all reality there is way more joy watching my children learn and grow.  To listen to them all laugh together, sing songs together, and yes even annoy each other is so much more rewarding.  So maybe if your reading this say a prayer for this Mama, that I can have the patients to be kind and loving to my children and that I can learn to deal with all the things that come my ways dealing with all these kids.  I will need every pray I can get. 

Fabric book 101

Someone asked me how I made this fabric book so I thought that I would explain as best I can.  The main part of the book is flannel.  I used it because I was able to sew it all together at the end.  I'm part of another group that's making a book and they will use stiffened felt, which will be nice and sturdy but it will have to be put together with rings or something.
Some things to consider:
-If you plan to make a book you need to make sure that you know that the only pages that will not be side by side are the middle ones, so if you want the others side by side you have to plan accordingly.
-Pellon is really easy to work with but it can be time consuming.  You don't have to use it but I really like using it.  
- Velcro is easy to work with but if you plan on using the sticky kind know that it will probably come up at some point and you may have to use some type of strong adhesive to get it to stick.  If I did it again I may just use the sew on kind, even if it takes longer. 

 

 This little girls hair is yarn.  I did burn all the ends and then I just sewed the top.  There may be a better way to get the hair to actually stay somewhat in place but I just sewed it along the top.  My girls like to braid it all. 

 This butterfly I got the idea from a game my kids have.  It's all velcro and you could put each piece sewed down with ribbon I just don't feel I need to. 

 The snowman is also velcro.  I did a lot of velcro. 

 For the clock I used some foam for the hands, but in the past I've used plastic as well and liked both.  The plastic turns a little easier.  One trick with the cloth though, use a long enough brad that it won't come through the fabric, if that makes sense.  I think the only I have on here is like 2 inches wide when all the way open.  The last book I made I think the brads only were 1/2 inch and it wouldn't stay in the fabric. 

 These flowers are velcro.  You could make them with buttons but I had a bunch of velcro so I used what I had. 

 This boat is similar to the butterfly.  It is also velcro. 

 These letters I just put on a page so that they can trace them with there fingers or whatever.  I put them on with pellon.  I have a picture at the bottom.  It comes by the yard and you have to get it at like Joanns or something.  It is an iron on adhesive, but I really like it.  I used it on a lot of the pieces of felt because then I could layer them to make them last better. 

 These animals and the other animals I have are from some fabric I had, I just cut out 2 of each animal and then used the pellon to bind it to the book and then to another fabric for the top ones. 

 The ice cream cone has buttons for matching colors and then velcro to make the cone. 

 For the shapes it's velcro but I used the kind where you have to sew it and I will just say that this kind stays ALOT better than the sticky kind. We had to get some strong adhesive to get some of the other ones to stick. 

 Tic-Tac-Toe was also made by using pellon to bind the green lines down and then I just cut out x's and o's.  The animals are just like the others. 

 This lady but was really easy.  I just got a zipper and sewed it on the fabric and then made little ones for the inside.  My girls think the little ones are really cute and they helped make them.  I used tacky glue for all the dots and such.
The last page is just a texture page.  Kids love to feel different textures and it's good for them. 

 This is the pellon stuff.  It comes with instructions.  I would say a trick is to make sure that you don't have extra hanging off the side when you iron it on cause it will get on your iron and it's kind of a pain to get off.  Possible yes, just a pain. 

If anyone has any questions let me know.  I'd be happy to answer them.